Moodhurai - 12th Century Didactic Poetry - Avvayar - 21

 


illaaL akaththirukka illaadhadhu ondRillai

illaaLum illaaLe yaamaayin-illaaL

valikidandha maatRam uraikkuMel av-il

pulikidandha thooraai vidum.

When your life partner shares their life with you, there is no shortage of happiness. However, living with a partner who uses abusive words towards you is like living in a jungle roamed by a tiger—it is not conducive to living.

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